Echoing through my head, the words, ‘Stop being judgemental!’ felt like a neon sign on the Las Vegas strip blinking violently at me. Being cut off in traffic, I let more than a few choice words leave my lips. As I’m writing this, I wonder, am I the judgemental one, in this instance? Am I treating other people the way I want to be treated? Or am I doing what I don’t want done to me?  

Am I being selfish? Do I need an attitude adjustment? Do I need to stop being self-centered and focus on things I can control?